The Best Way to Live

by Manal Ghosain on November 16, 2014


“To live with care and kindness is all that is necessary. The rest reveals itself in due time.” ~ David R. Hawkins

Care and kindness can transform how we live.

We’re often told to change the world by doing important work. Yet, we tend to ignore the most fundamental type of work—the inner work that changes us.

In my view, as individuals, we cannot change the world. We might be able to affect some positive change in one tiny area of life, and that’s a good thing. However, the impact is short-lived, and we feel the need to do more, and more.

When we embrace care and kindness as a way of life, we may not change the world, but we will definitely change how we view and interact with the world.

Imagine if each one of us started seeing the entire world through the attentive eyes of love and compassion. How would the world respond (since it’s a mirror reflecting back what we perceive)?

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